I don’t know about you, but I’ve had days, okay, weeks, sometimes months, where I’ve just felt stuck. You know that feeling, right?
Like you’re standing still in quicksand, sinking little by little but not sure how to even start pulling yourself out. Trust me, I’ve been there more times than I’d like to admit. And girl, let me tell you,it ain’t cute.
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Feeling stuck can show up in so many ways. Maybe you’re stuck in a job you don’t love, a relationship that’s draining your energy, or even in habits that keep you running in circles. And you know what’s wild?
Most of the time, we’re fully aware we’re stuck but still manage to convince ourselves we can “wait it out.” Please understand one thing, waiting it out rarely changes things.
Movement is the Key When Feeling Stuck
If you’re feeling stuck, you’ve got to understand one simple thing: movement is key. Girl, listen. Nothing changes unless you change something.
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Sounds simple, right? Yet, I’ve caught myself hoping things would magically fall into place without me doing anything. That wishful thinking had me stuck way longer than I needed to be.
One thing about getting unstuck is you have to make a move, any move. It doesn’t even have to be perfect. You don’t need to have every single detail figured out to start making progress.
Waiting for perfection is honestly just another sneaky way our minds keep us stuck. The moment I learned to embrace imperfection and just get moving, doors started opening.
It’s Time to Make a Decision
Indecision is like the silent enemy of progress. I used to think that keeping my options open was smart, but all it did was keep me stuck exactly where I didn’t want to be.
Eventually, I realized the power of making a clear, committed decision. Whether it’s deciding to finally launch that blog, leave that toxic job, or start prioritizing self-care, the decision itself is empowering.
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Let’s be real though, decision-making can be scary, especially if you’re stepping into unknown territory. I’ve learned to lean into that discomfort instead of running from it. Girl, discomfort means you’re growing. Embrace it. Own it. It’s your ticket out of that stuck feeling.
Plan and Execute
After you decide, the next critical step is planning and execution. Notice I said “and” execution. Because a plan without action is just a cute idea sitting in your notebook, collecting dust.
Trust me, I’ve filled plenty of pretty planners with all kinds of goals that went absolutely nowhere. It wasn’t until I started executing those plans—small steps consistently—that things really began shifting.
I know execution might sound daunting, especially if your goals are big. But here’s the thing, it’s about breaking things down into smaller, manageable steps. I had to stop overwhelming myself with the end goal and instead focus on the very next step in front of me.
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Want to change careers? Start by updating your resume. Feeling stuck in your health journey? Begin with drinking more water each day. Those tiny moves add up, and before you know it, you’re moving forward faster than you ever imagined.
Find Accountability
Something else that’s super helpful when you’re feeling stuck is accountability. Find yourself someone who will lovingly check you, someone who’s invested in seeing you win. I had to build my own support system of friends and mentors who weren’t afraid to tell me the truth, even when it stung a bit.
Accountability pushes you to keep moving, especially on days when you’d rather hide under the covers binge-watching your favorite show.
Shift Your Mindset
Lastly, let’s get honest about mindset. Your thoughts play a huge role in keeping you stuck or setting you free. The moment I decided to stop replaying negative thoughts and started speaking positively over my life, things changed drastically.
Mindset shifts don’t happen overnight, but small adjustments every day can truly transform your whole vibe.
Final Thoughts
So, girl, if you’re feeling stuck today, know this,you are not alone. We all hit those walls. But getting unstuck is absolutely within your power. Make a move. Decide something.
Plan it out and execute. Lean on people who love you, and get your mindset right. You deserve to live a life that excites you, not one you tolerate.
You got this. Let’s get unstuck and start moving forward.
