Description
It’s Not You. It’s Definitely Me is not your typical self-help book; it’s a deep, personal unpacking of how one woman stopped blaming everybody else and started holding herself accountable. L.A. Randle opens the door to the relationships that shaped her, mother, father, sister, son, husband, and even herself, and shows how healing didn’t come from pointing fingers. It came from finally looking in the mirror.
Through raw storytelling, spiritual reflection, and hard truths, L.A. shares how childhood wounds, broken boundaries, and generational habits turned into toxic patterns. And how self-awareness, forgiveness, and faith pulled her out. This book is for the woman who’s done pretending, done deflecting, and ready to do the work, because healing starts when you finally say: maybe it was me all along.
What’s in This Ebook-
Chapter 1- Mama May I?
Chapter 2- Daddy Dearest
Chapter 3- Loving my Son Through the Lens of my Trauma
Chapter 4- Sisters by Blood, Strangers By Choice
Chapter 5- Disconnecting Myself From In-Laws
Chapter 6- Finding Liberation Inside My Marriage
Chapter 7- The Generational Curse
Chapter 8- Becoming the Curse
Chapter 9- Breaking the Curse
Chapter 10- Me, Myself, and Accountability
